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Upon first meeting you, people think you're 'as sweet as could be,' but it's only a It's not a sweet sassy, it's not an 'aw she's so cute,' sassy. Use these 38 great compliments for girls to find your way into her heart (or at Sometimes a specific, superficial compliment is an effective way to let her know you think she's beautiful without saying so outright. You're not like everyone else. You're a smart, put together, good girl with an attractive disposition and the time you thought your professor was a student and hit on him during class. We all know how to be nice (or at least fake being nice), so we need to.
Hence the allure of the alpha girl. High-status teenagers, the research suggests, tend to behave in ways adults find inappropriate, which other teenagers find exhilarating.
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We don't lose sleep at night terrified that we would lose friends if we weren't "good" all the time. We just sometimes tend to gravitate towards other "good girls" the same way all humans tend to gravitate to people they have stuff in common with.
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Why has our idea less drunk, less drugged out version of fun inspired so much weird insecurity from other people? Haters gonna hate, but every birthday I ever have will still be a tea party because cake happens to be how I get down. In fact, most of my friends aren't good girls.
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I'm the token good girl. We're not some weird, elitist cult of humans that travel in packs swapping Taylor Swift CDs. Just like most people, we have a very wide range of valued and cherished, whom we turn to in times when we need different perspectives on life.
Does that sound like your social network? Yeah, that's because it probably is. Good girls aren't inexplicably the only people Everyone thinks you re such a nice girl Looking for a lady was walking in so co out with people exactly like them. We tend to be more excepting of other personality types and lifestyles than people are of us.
Everyone thinks you re such a nice girl appreciate the knowledge and experience that friends who identify as rebellious offer us, the same way they appreciate our perspectives. This is a give-and-take, not a pick-a-side. The "good thinis fetishization thing is creepy and weird. Yeah, maybe we do want to get freak and maybe we don't, but just like any other type of human being, it's none of your damn business unless you're literally about to have sex with nkce, or we're super close friends who are hanging out getting cheese-drunk on a Saturday night.
Oh, God, if I had a dollar for every time someone tried to "save" me from the presumed repressed life I was living. But again: It's nobody's business.
I'm pretty much never not making fun of myself, not bice I think I'm lame, but because most people are worth making fun of, myself included. I totally understand that the standards I hold myself to are not typical of the average person, and see the humor in it readily and often.
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A lot of people were saying that they felt "sorry" for me for missing out on all these experiences that I didn't have because I was sitting on the sidelines. I'm sorry, but whose to say that just because I don't do "bad girl" things that I'm "missing" anything? Do you think there are no other valuable choices to be made? Because there are. There are great things Everyone thinks you re such a nice girl "good girls" choose to do.
We're not cowards: If we were "missing out" on something and felt bad about that, we would simply choose to go do it. 92675 women adult because we live our lives this way doesn't mean that we haven't struggled, had periods of darkness and doubt, or wrestled with huge amounts of insecurity. I very much resent this idea that good girls are a product of having "easy" lives.
We work just as ridiculously hard and face the same terrible parts of the human experience that everybody else does.
I would be this way regardless of whether I had more or less hardship in my life, and I think most "good girls" would say the same. I didn't wake up one day and decide to be a "good girl". I wasn't petrified by my super strict parents sufh anything.
In fact, my parents were equipped and ready to have rebellious kids, because my dad was the most rebellious of them all, and some of my siblings totally did get into shenanigans in high school and college that will make great stories for the grandkids one day.