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Adri Murguia, who's the executive producer of the show, and I started talking about how crazy it is that msssage so many sexual services available to men and so few to women.
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While men can go in to a massage parlor and get a "happy ending" massage, where the session ends in a hand job, women don't seem to have the same option of paying someone to jack the off.
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Was this so intimidating that men just wouldn't sign up for that?
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I went on a date with him and we talked about what it's like to be a male escort—everything from how much it costs to spend time with him to who his typical clients are, to what his service offers.
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It's sort of like orgasmic meditation but with a little bit more note-taking. But I've never been in an experience like that where, very slowly, you figure out: Is the upper wall of my vagina more sensitive than the lower wall of my vagina?
You just don't know, you usually just sort of shove it in and don't think about it. So that was interesting to a degree, but it wasn't the happy ending that I really wanted. I wanted what guys get—where you just walk into a massage parlor, someone jerks you off, and then you leave.
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All of these men were getting so real and opening up about what intimidates them about the female orgasm; what it means to them when they have sex with a woman, whether it be a stranger or their girlfriend or wife, and they can't make her cum; what that does for their ego; and what that means for their sexual life and their relationship.
Finally, I just ended up trolling Craigslist for a jerk-off artist. In the end, though, he definitely delivered.
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