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But this holiday romance is not all it seems. The woman is white, in her late 50s; the man, black, 18 - and paid for his attentions. The scene - from the controversial new French film, Heading South, which opened this weekend, starring Charlotte Rampling, makes us confront uncomfortable truths about sexuality in a globalised world, and the legacy of colonialism.
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Tour companies even market package deals as sex holidays for single and unaccompanied women. Forget Shirley Valentine, these women - who range from grandmothers to teens - don't want a long-term relationship.
And there's plenty of live flesh on sale. Take Jamaica, where 17 per cent of the population lives below the poverty line. Pleaxure on the beach is the only way that some young men can feed themselves and their families. No wonder they choose older women who pay better than younger ones.
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Charities such as Amnesty and Unicef have no official policy on female Seeking woman to pamper pleasure tourism, preferring to focus on protecting trafficked women and children. Chris Beddoe, director of Ecpat UK, the children's rights organisation that campaigns against child sex aoman, believes: But it's another thing to continue the fantasy when there's a denial pleqsure the power that money brings to that relationship that creates a culture of dependency and exploitation.
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Bowman walking women And you do find yourself thinking, 'We're not a million miles from slavery. For all the talk of romance, the language of sex tourism is pretty basic. In Jamaica the men are called "beach boys" or "Rastatutes". The women are called milk bottles by the men - partly because of their ultra-white skin, partly because they are seen as vessels waiting to be filled.
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Instead they insisted they were helping the men, and the local economy, by giving them money and gifts. When asked to pleasuure "boyfriends", most emphasised how for them black Jamaican men possessed bodies of great sexual value.
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