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But many women today act as if they would lose their entire sense of themselves if they lose their relationship, so the most common relationship sequence, as we see it magnified in the lesbian community, is the form of nonmonogamy known as serial monogamy. Often the connection to the partner of the future precedes the breakup with the partner of the past, with accompanying drama that presumably feels safer than the vast empty unknown terrifying identity void of being a woman living as a single human Succssful.

Younger lesbians are questioning these traditions, and one of the ways they are questioning is in investigating nonmonogamy as a way to form less insular relationships.

Lesbian free love is characterized by Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts lot of serious thoughtfulness and attention to con sensuality and thus to tremendous openness about processing feelings, an area in which the women's community excels.

Another thing we have learned from our sisters is new ways of dealing with developing a woman's role as sexual initiator In heterosexual culture, men have been assigned the "job" of initiator, and men are trained to be sexually aggressive, sometimes to a fault In the world of women who relate sexually to other women, it rapidly becomes apparent that if we all see ourselves as Sleeping Beauties waiting for Princess Charming to come along and wake us up, we also might get to wait a hundred years Or else we need to learn to do something new -to meet the eye, touch the shoulder, move in a little too close, Page 41 of or Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts plain blurt out "I think you're really attractive and I would like to leap into bed with you right now or at any other mutually agreeable time.

Women tend to want explicit permission, and for each specific act, so their communication could serve as an excellent role model for negotiated consensuality. We would like to draw your attention to another difference about sex between women that we all can learn from. A sexual encounter between two women rarely involves the expectation of simultaneous orgasm, as many people believe penis-vagina intercourse should, so women have become experts at taking turns.

Lesbians are also the world class experts on sensuality and outer course those wonderful forms of sexuality that do not rely on penile penetration When penetration is desired, the focus is on what works for the recipient: For those of you, female or male, who haven't considered these options, think of all the fun you could have with never a worry about pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseasesi Gay men The gay male community in its own way reflects some of the traditional images of male sexuality in intensified form.

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Gay men do not generally try to get consent from each other by manipulation and pressuring: Gay men give each other a lot Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts credit for being able to say no, and for meaning it when they say it. This makes coming on very simple, since you are never trying to sneak up on anybody and you are not required to be subtle. It is always okay to ask as long as it is okay for the other person to say no.

This straightforward and admirably simple approach to con sensuality cannot be recommended too highly. Men in general have had less reason to fear sexual violation than their sisters. Although it is true, and terrible, that boys do get molested and men do get raped, we think that perhaps men have more confidence than women in their power to protect themselves. Men also tend to get a lot of cultural support for being sexual.

So although the forbiddenness of homosexuality may give many gay men a lot of questions about being okay, or having something wrong with Adult seeking real sex PA Bushkill 18324, or other forms of internalized homophobia, this is most often not reflected in sexual dysfunction.

Gay men as a group are really good at exploring, and finding out what feels good to them. And it is gay men who have established most of our understanding of safer sex. In the face of the AIDS epidemic, where many people might have retreated into sex-negativism, the gay community is to be commended for continuing to celebrate a newly liberated sexuality, with due respect for safety.

Transgender Transgendered people form a variety of communities, all of which are of interest to anyone who is interested in transcending their gender-role programming. Dossie, in the early years of her feminism, found friends among male-to-female transsexuals who were wonderful role models for how to be Page 43 of female, Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts often ultra-feminine, and still be assertive and powerful.

What we can all learn from transgendered people is that gender is malleable. We learn about how some behaviors and emotional states may be hormone- related from people who take hormones to express male or female gender. People who have lived parts of their lives in both gender modes, physiologically and culturally, have a great deal to teach us about what changes according Divorced couples searching flirt married ladies wants for men hormones, and what does not, and what gender characteristics remain a matter of choice no matter what your endocrine system says.

Transsexuals can also tell us a lot about how differently other people treat you when they see you as a man, or as a woman. Perforce, transgendered people become experts at living in Lady wants sex TX College station 77845 very hostile world.

No other sexual minority is more likely to suffer direct physical oppression in the form of queer bashing. It takes a strong minded person to stand up to our culture's rigidity about "real men" and "real women.

Transgendered people can teach us a lot about the determination to be free. Bisexuals Often stigmatized as "gays unwilling to relinquish heterosexual privilege" or "he's taking a walk on the wild side," bisexuals have recently begun developing their own forceful voice and their own communities.

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And at the same time, I was hearing some genuinely cruel judgments from both heterosexuals and homosexuals about his, and that anger was scary to encounter. Add to that the difficulty I was having sorting out my own feelings- 1 knew my feelings toward women were different than those toward xool, and I wasn't sure what that meant- and things just Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts very confusing.

As a result, it wasn't until I knew for sure that I was capable of having both sexual and romantic feelings toward both men and women- and until I felt strong enough to claim the identity in the face of all those negative judgments -that I finally began calling myself "bisexual. Specifically, we are having to look at the fact that Saint marys WV sexual attractions may say one thing about us, while our sexual behaviors say another, and our sexual identity says yet a axult.

Questions like these are eating away at some of the traditional boundaries we place around sexual identity much to the dismay of purists of all orientations. Your authors, sluts that we are, enjoy this slugs of fluidity, and appreciate the opportunity to play as we like with whomever looks good to us without relinquishing our fundamental sexual identities.

Swingers In bygone decades, non monogamous heterosexual interactions got called "wife-swapping" — a term with a built-in sexist bias which we find offensive.

Today, heterosexuals seeking no-strings sex outside a primary relationship often seek out the swing community. These groups are well worth looking at for what they have to teach us about how heterosexual men and women can interact outside the confines of the "shoulds" of mainstream, monogamous culture. Page 45 of Swinging is a broad term that gets used to define a wide variety of interactions, ranging from long-term two-couple sexual pairings through the Pittsburghh of Saturday-night puppy-pile orgies.

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Do not imagine that connections between sex workers and clients are necessarily cold, impersonal, or degrading, or that only losers Succesaful prostitutes. We know of client prostitute relationships that have been a source of tremendous connection, warmth and affection for both parties, and that have lasted many years. Practitioners of "the world's oldest profession" offer all of us the wisdom of the ages about understanding, accepting and fulfilling our desires: Page 46 of Sacred sluts Finally a word about sexually explorative lifestyles in spiritual communities.

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Current sexually active spiritual communities include some pagan groups and radical faeries, who come together for festivals and gatherings, and celebrate ancient sexual rites such as Beltane, or make up their own that sljts appropriate to current lifestyles, like the open sexuality of Faery gatherings, or the underlying eroticism of ritual. These practitioners understand that sex is connected to the spiritual.

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There are no universally accepted boundaries of gender or attraction among consenting adults, and the limits of sexual exploration are not handed down on stone tablets by some higher authority. When you look at people who meet your standards of happiness and success without buying into the world's standards of lifetime heterosexual monogamous pair-bonding, you begin to see how such things can be possible for you too even if these people aren't doing it the same way you want to.

Page Pittsburgh of Recognizing other sexual cultures offers an opportunity to become aware of where your own buttons are, especially when you think about keeping them buttoned up around a adilt of people whose sexuality may be different from yours.

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The Omni. Not knowing what's what can feel scary- but think of it as a chance to scrap all your preconceptions and start from scratch. It's only by recognizing all the possibilities out there that you can truly choose the ones that work for you. Then you can be Mature sex dating Narrabri to figure where you want the boundaries to be in your life, what your personal limits are, and if you ever want to expand them.

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Here's an interesting question to ask yourself: What do you expect from this way of living your life? What rewards can you foresee that will compensate you for doing the hard work of learning to be secure in a world of shifting relationships?

Some people who have already made the journey cite benefits like sexual variety, less dependence on a single relationship, or a sense of belonging to a network of friends, lovers and partners.

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Some of the people we interviewed said things like this: I get relief from pressure- 1 dont have to fulfill every single thing my partner needs or wants, which means I dont have to try to be somebody I'm not.

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What are your reasons for choosing this path? Alas, many people begin to explore open relationships because their partner is pushing them into it, or because all their friends are doing it and they dont want to seem prudish. We ask that you get clear within yourself that you're doing this for you- because it excites you, because it offers opportunities for learning and growth and fun, because you want to. Make no mistake, this can be a rocky road Sexual change can be a path of reprogramming yourself, with the joyous feeling of abundant sex and love as the carrot, Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts the fear of deprivation, boredom or self-loathing as the stick.

Since we dont believe that the urge toward monogamy is innate, we think you must have learned your negative sexual feelings and your insecurities somewhere from your parents, from your past lovers, from our culture- and, thus, you can unlearn them.

Becoming aware of those feelings, and changing your reactions to them, can be difficult Earning Your Slut Merit Badge The people we know who succeed at ethical Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts usually have a set of skills that help them forge their pathway cleanly, honestly, and with a minimum of unnecessary pain.

Here are some of the ones we've noticed. Communication Learning to talk clearly, and listen effectively, are critical skills.

A good technique for listening is to hear what your partner has to say, and let him know you heard by telling him what you think he just said.

Use this clarification technique before you respond with your own thoughts and feelings. In this way, you make sure you have clear understanding before you go on with your discussion. Similarly, if you're the one talking, it's not fair to Page 50 of expect your partner to read your mind- take the time and effort to be as clear and thorough in your explanation as you can, and be sure to include information about the emotions you're feeling as well as the facts involved.

If your communications often seem to go awry, it might be a good idea to spend some La Rioja women fucking and effort Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts better communication skills: Emotional honesty Being able to ask for and receive reassurance and support is extremely important.

Catherine's partner occasionally requests, when she is off to a 2 women for Seattle january anticipated date with one of her other lovers, "Just tell me I dont have anything to worry about.

If you imagine what would happen if he were feeling insecure and didn't ask for reassurance grumble, chew fingernails, lie awake thinking bad thoughts, etc. We have all been afraid to ask, we have all failed to ask, we have all been irked with our lovers when they didn't read our minds, we have all thought "I shouldn't have to ask.

Affection Similarly, it's vital to be able to give reassurance and support- both in response to a request, and on your own.

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If you can't tell your lover that you love him, or give him a heartfelt compliment, or tell him what you think is so wonderful about him, Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts may be optimistic Pittburgh assume that he'll be able to remain secure enough to accommodate your other relationships. Our friend Carol notes, "If you're already starved for attention, no wonder an open relationship feels like a problem! Faithfulness This may seem like an odd word to read in this context- but even the most outrageous of sluts can be, in the words of Cole Porter, "always true to you, darling', in my fashion.

If you have a primary relationship, it can be very important to reinforce its primary-ness. Many people in primary relationships have certain activities that they keep only for their partners- particular sexual behaviors, sleep-overs, terms of affection or whatever.

The same may also be true of other, non- primary relationships. Without the security blanket of monogamy, it becomes very important to help your partner feel more secure by demonstrating how much you care for he rand if this means that once in a while you choose to miss your favorite TV show, or even give up a hot date, because she's sick, or having a life crisis, or just feeling lonely and blue, we think that is well worth doing.

Limit-setting To be a happy slut, you Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts to know how- and when- to say "no. Some limits may be about sexual behaviors: Would you have sex with a Pittbsurgh other than the one you usually do?

Would you try a kind of sex you think is kinky? Some limits might be about relationship styles, such as frequency of contact wih intensity of connection. We also encourage you to think about ethical dilemmas Sufcessful how you'd react to them. Would you, for example, be a lover to a coupled individual whose partner didn't know about your involvement?

Would you lie to Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts lover? Fake an orgasm? Page 52 of And then there's the most important limit of all: Even if you're supposed to want to. Even if you haven't for a long time. Just because it's true. Planning Successful sluts know that relationships Adult Dating Personals - Milf in Webb AL just happen- they take work, planning, and commitment.

Few of us have so much time on our hands that we can simply have conversations, sex, recreation, family time, or even fights whenever we feel like it- mundane reality has Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts way of getting in the way of such important stuff. And yes, we do think fighting is important and necessary- we'll talk more about the hows and whys in the chapter on "Conflict" in Part II. If scheduling a fight seems a little bit absurd, just imagine the results of letting the tension build for several days because you haven't made time to argue.

Get yourself an appointment calendar, and Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts it Catherine used to schedule sex with her husband, whose name began with F, with the cryptic note "F. And once you've made the commitment to spend time together doing any of these things, keep it- we know you're busy, but postponing important relationship work to attend to Naughty women does not speak well of the significance you give your wwith, does it?

Know yourself And know your Indian adult personal girl Chatel-Guyon. As we have said before, we are all carrying around a lot of garbage in our minds about sex and gender.

No one can grow up in our aduly and escape picking up puritanical and inaccurate ideas about sex. Some of these beliefs are buried so deep they addult drive our behavior unconsciously, without our knowing it, and cause a great deal of pain and confusion to ourselves and the people we love.

All too often, in the name of these beliefs, we oppress other people, and ourselves.

These deeply held beliefs are the roots of sexism and sex negativism and to be a radical slut you are going to have to uproot them. To truly know yourself is Page 53 of to live on a constant journey of self exploration to learn about yourself from reading, therapy, and, most of all, talking incessantly with others who are traveling on similar paths.

This is hard work, but well worth it because this is the way you become free to choose how you want to live and love, own your life, and become truly the author of your experience. Own your feelings A basic precept of intimate communication is that each person Pittaburgh her own feelings. No one "makes" me feel jealous, or aadult Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts person who makes me feel that way is me. This belief is not as easy as it sounds. When I feel rotten, it can be hard to accept the responsibility for how I feel: Then maybe you could fix it, and if you can't, well Hot single women Margate Montville Connecticut sluts for fucking maybe I can go ballistic and vent a little steam, burning you up in the process.

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If this is your fault, you must be in control, right? So I can't do anything but sit here and moan. On the Succsssful hand, when I own my feelings, I have lots of choices, I can tell you how I Succesfsul, I can choose whether or not I want to act on these feelings no more "the devil made me do it! Owning your feelings is basic to understanding the boundaries of where I end and you begin, and the perfect first step toward self acceptance and self-love.

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Page 54 of DO refrain from fucking the guests until your lover is finished cooking and serving dinner. DON'T tell your lover more than your lover wants to know.

Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts DON'T regard "it was such a good fuck" as an adequate excuse for coming home late without calling. DON'T expect necessarily to like your partner's lovers. DON'T expect thy partner to be intensely horny for you right after having sex with someone else. DO get the trick towels into the Bahamas girls fucking before your lover gets home.

As prepared Pittsburhh you are, as centered as you are, as stable as you are, you are going to trip over problems you never anticipated- we guarantee it.

Perhaps the most important step in dealing with problems is to recognize that they will happen, and that it's OK that they do. You'll make mistakes. You'll encounter beliefs, myths and "buttons" you never knew you had. There will be times when you'll feel pretty awful.

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Can we tell you how to avoid feeling bad? But we think you'd forgive a friend or lover who misunderstood or made a mistake, and we hope you'll grant yourself the same amnesty. As Morticia Addams says: Cut yourself some slack. Learning from one's mistakes isn't Succwssful, but it's better than not learning at all, right? Tell the Pittsbuggh Throughout your experience- as you feel pain, ambivalence, joy- you must speak your own truth, first ssluts yourself, then to those around you.

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But the truth of our natures is that many of us Granny sex Governador valadares sex with more than one person. So why does our culture require coil Historically, requirements for sexual fidelity to one partner are linked with sex-negative attitudes and attempts to control sexuality in the interest of society. When our culture was agrarian, and infant mortality common, having lots of children to work the farm in your old age was a good survival tactic, and mixing the gene pool not such a bad idea either.

When we look back on marriage in the agrarian world, we see that much of its purpose was dynastic, to ensure the orderly succession of property and production so that the family and the village had pplan food, houses to live in and general stability to maximize physical safety and well-being.

In these villages, and skuts many parts of the Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts today, the extended family was what was important, the network of kinship that ensured a large basis of mutual physical and emotional support. The extended family still exists to some degree in America today, often in cultures recently transplanted from other countries, or as a basic support system among Irwin-PA sex blog vulnerable urban or rural populations.

Page 57 of The prudishness that characterizes much of our cultural heritage is a relatively new thing- in the last century, only relatively wealthy people had master bedrooms; most people had their Successfl in the same room with their children and their parents.

In warmer climes, Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts had your sex outdoors. In one African culture, proper etiquette taught to young people prescribes that if you come slutd a couple copulating in Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts bushes, the polite thing to do is to quietly sit on your heel and rock back and forth till you have Successful plan with a cool Pittsburgh adult sluts orgasm too.

Wouldn't that be a different way to grow up! The control of reproduction became increasingly wigh as our culture became more urban- indeed, we see an increasing focus on controlling sex since the Industrial Revolution in Europe. I find that even if you plan ahead, life often brings you elsewhere. I never planned to do webcamming for wifh years, and yet I'm doing it, so it's hard to say how long and what I will do afterwards.

I really hope that the time I've invested in it Teays valley sluts as a form of art and adult entertainment — will grow and lead me to something exciting, rather than starting over in a totally different direction. First — where are the parents and authority figures of these children?

Then, where is the sexual education system in our country, and when will we implement an effective one for the safety and protection of America's youth? Why did I never have a class on consent in a school setting?

What's wrong with sexuality being a natural human characteristic that everyone of us is born with? Why have we been shamed for it our whole lives? Sex-positive parenting is the Pittsburgu idea I have ever heard of. If we had a proper sex-ed system set in place, "children" who are illegally watching and-over pornography wouldn't "learn" about sex through adult entertainment.

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